引言:记不记得在婚礼中,牧者对你们的训勉?
一.「遇见配偶」(创2:18-20)
1.神为何给亚当预备配偶?
一个人有什麽不好的地方?
2.「配偶」这字有什麽意思?
和其它动物有什麽不同地方,特别之处? 配偶又是否男性的助手,身份比男性低?
3.神为何只造一个配偶,不多造几个帮助亚当?
4.另外,有人认为只有亚当与夏娃的婚姻是神配合的,其馀的是在圣经原则下,人用自由选择下而结合的,你同意这看法吗?
5.神设立婚姻的目的何在?
你认为配偶如何彼此帮助完成神设立婚姻的目的?
6.在实际生活中,你的配偶又如何帮助你?
他/她又有什麽特别之处是其他人不可取代的?
二.「成为一体」(创2:21-25)
1.神用亚当的一条肋骨造女人,有什麽含意?
「骨中的骨」「肉中的肉」又可代表什麽?
2.「离开父母」又是什麽意思?
3.在圣经中,「二人成为一体」代表什麽?
4.试分享你们婚後成为一个独特新的家庭,「离开父母」之最初感受,是否适应?
後来如何?
参考经文:
[创
2:18-创 2:25]
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[18]And Jehovah God said, It is not good that the man
should be alone; I will make him a help meet for him.
[19]And out of the ground Jehovah God formed every
beast of the field, and every bird of the heavens; and brought them unto the man
to see what he would call them: and whatsoever the man called every living
creature, that was the name thereof.
[20]And the man gave names to all cattle, and to the
birds of the heavens, and to every beast of the field; but for man there was not
found a help meet for him.
[21]And Jehovah God caused a deep sleep to fall upon
the man, and he slept; and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh
instead thereof:
[22]and the rib, which Jehovah God had taken from the
man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
[23]And the man said, This is now bone of my bones,
and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of
Man.
[24]Therefore shall a man leave his father and his
mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
[25]And they were both naked, the man and his wife,
and were not ashamed.
[玛
2:14-玛 2:15]
[14]你们还说,这是为什麽呢.因耶和华在你和你幼年所娶的妻中间作见证.她虽是你的配偶,又是你盟约的妻,你却以诡诈待她.
[15]虽然神有灵的馀力能造多人他不是单造一人麽.为何只造一人呢.乃是他愿人得虔诚的後裔.所以当谨守你们的心,谁也不可以诡诈待幼年所娶的妻.
[太
19:3-太 19:6]
[3]有法利赛人来试探耶稣说,人无论什麽缘故,都可以休妻麽.
[4]耶稣回答说,那起初造人的,是造男造女,
[5]并且说,『因此,人要离开父母,与妻子连合,二人成为一体.』这经你们没有念过麽.
[6]既然如此,夫妻不再是两个人,乃是一体的了.所以
神配合的,人不可分开.
[可
10:6-可 10:9]
[6]但从起初创造的时候,神造人是造男造女.
[7]因此人要离开父母,与妻子连合,二人成为一体.
[8]既然如此,夫妻不再是两个人,乃是一体的了.
[9]所以
神配合的,人不可分开.
[林前
6:15-林前 6:17]
[15]岂不知你们的身子是基督的肢体麽.我可以将基督的肢体作为娼妓的肢体麽.断乎不可.
[16]岂不知与娼妓联合的,便是与他成为一体麽.因为主说,『二人要成为一体』.
[17]但与主联合的,便是与主成为一灵.
[林前
11:8-林前 11:12]
[8]起初,男人不是由女人而出.女人乃是由男人而出.
[9]并且男人不是为女人造的.女人乃是为男人造的.
[10]因此,女人为天使的缘故,应当在头上有服权柄的记号.
[11]然而照主的安排,女也不是无男,男也不是无女.
[12]因为女人原是由男人而出,男人也是由女人而出.但万有都是出乎神.
[弗
5:29-弗 5:31]
[29]从来没有人恨恶自己的身子,总是保养顾惜,正像基督待教会一样.
[30]因我们是他身上的肢体.[有古卷在此有就是他的骨他的肉].
[31]为这个缘故,人要离开父母,与妻子连合,二人成为一体.